My answer for those who are asking me when will I have a baby.
When man and woman get married people are expecting to have them a baby. So if you are not able to conceived on the first year,they pity you. Many will tell you to have exercise because your fat,and your fats covers your uterus. Some of them feeling concerned offering some supplements and vitamins for you to conceive. Others says lose some weight and you will get pregnant. Some invited us to dance for Santa Clara in Obando to have a child.
But every person is different, I don`t want to gain weight but this hormonal imbalance is attacking . For others wishing a baby to the Saints works, and its a miracle and we are happy for them. When they rejoice for the birth of their child,we rejoice with them we celebrate with them.
We are still enjoying our time together and we are not in a hurry to have a baby. Don`t get me wrong, we love children, we really do, and we want to be called Nanay and Tatay. We want to be parents. I have PCOS that makes conceiving difficult but it doesn’t mean we will don’t have kids in the future. It just mean my body is not yet physically ready to have a baby.
We are happy and contented on each other right now. I know it will come one day, So if you are married and childless, YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE. WE ARE NOT A FAILURE. YOU ARE ENOUGH. WE ARE ENOUGH. GOD is working on it. GOD is in control. Trust in His ways. WE are not alone in this battle. God is with us.
Don’t ask us to have a baby right a way unless you are going to pay for my hospital bills, child care and education, Understanding and being less judgmental is highly recommended!
That’s what’s on Mellie’s mind. Now it’s your turn to tell me what’s on your mind.
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