How to React on your Husband’s Anger

Marriage is the union of two unique individuals .This two unique individuals have different likes,way of thinking,dreams that when bumped in to each other ,if not controlled EXPLODES.

Even if you married a reasonable man,there will be a times that the patience runs out.A simple conversation turns into fight.The better half turns into someone you don’t know.

Before I get married,my Grandmother told me this and probably also to my older cousins before they get married.These advises are passed down from generations to generations.And it really works for me.

ALERT: These tips needs a mental coordination to be effective.

• Pray. Pray to have long patience,enlightenment in dealing with the raging fury of the husband.

• Keep Calm. I never see an angry person calm down after being told to calm down.So instead of fighting back with loud voice, show your poker face. With this, you can think clearly of what to do.Think if your going to say is kind,and will not fuel up the madness of the husband,if not just shut up.

• Why the husband is angry?Figure out why the husband is angry?Even if you know that you are correct ,don’t slap it to his face.Think if your action will matter after a year,if not don’t take any action.

• Walk away.Escape the argument by excusing your self.Tell him Let’s talk later if you are in the good mood.Think if you win the argument,you lose your husband.

• Accept Apology.If the husband said sorry,accept the apology and tell him I was hurt when you acted like that to me.After all,what matter is understanding each others differences.Don’t blame the partner. Just let it go and move on, Easier said than done but it works and really a life saver!

KEEP IN MIND: “Be angry but do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and do not make room for the devil.”

Hope it helps!

That’s what on Mellie’s mind. Now, it’s your turn to tell me what’s on your mind.

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